So far, we’ve talked about what homeschooling with a newborn looks like under normal circumstances; however, not every birth, baby, and postpartum goes smoothly. Â Sometimes events surrounding giving birth are less than ideal.
Until my 7th birth, the only outside-the-norm circumstances I had ever experienced were 2 c-sections. Â While c-sections are often difficult to recover from, I was back to normal in 2-4 weeks, and thankfully, both babies were very good-natured.
But, Baby #7 made homeschooling quite a difficult task. Â His pregnancy was difficult and drug on through a very hot summer. Â Finally, he came (rather quickly) into the world, and I was so relieved to have him here! Â However, 5 hours after his birth he began to cry. Â He was 4 months old before he became the happy-go-lucky little boy his is today.
Add to that the fact that the difficult emotions I dealt with during pregnancy followed me and became full-blown postpartum depression.
I was a hormonal, exhausted mess caring for a fussy uncomfortable newborn. Â Homeschooling felt like an impossibility.
These are the times in life when you have to just let go. Â You can’t control what is happening to you. Â You are not a failure, and there is so much that can be learned through crisis.
The number one piece of advice I can give you when it comes to homeschooling with a newborn when circumstances are difficult is to hand it all over to the Lord, and trust that He will supply your every need…including your homeschool needs.
“For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.â€
Here are some resources you might find helpful when those early days are not what you envisioned and you find yourself in the midst of a crisis.
*Homeschooling During Crisis mp3Â – Even though this session from the TPA convention in Wichita, Kansas was born out of the loss of a child, it is very relevant to any crisis you might face.
*The Colicky BabyÂ – my story with Baby #7
*Staying On Top of Your Game When You’re Tired – How to handle exhaustion as a mom
*How To Help NICU FamiliesÂ – guest post
*What Can I Do?Â – What others can do to bless a grieving parent – these ideas can easily translate into other crises.
*Homeschool Survival website – stories of homeschooling through crisis
*Homeschooling with Preschoolers & Postpartum Depression on Visionary Womanhood
This series is part of theÂ Summer Hopscotch. Â Click Â the link to read more great posts on a myriad of topics from other homeschooling mamas!