Cooking for a Crew by Stretching What You Have {guest post}

The last article I could imagine myself writing is one on cooking.   Unlike some of my friends, it’s not a favorite thing to do.  I don’t mind when I can take it at a leisurely pace.

There was a time I made yogurt, bread and tried new things often.  Then I had a child with a disability and parents that needed assistance and there just wasn’t a lot of time for food preparation.  But people still needed to eat, and I needed to feed my growing, large family frugally!

My method comes from martyred missionary Jim Elliot’s widow, Elisabeth Elliot.  As far as I know, she does not have a lecture or an article on cooking, but one of the many things that helped me was her method of problem-solving, which was to ask

“What do I have in my hand?”

This is how Mrs. Elliot handled most challenges that came into her life–that and prayer. There have been many times I’ve stood in my kitchen or been helping a child with schoolwork and the Father has given me an idea!

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For breakfast, the children are somewhat on their own.  We like baked oatmeal, especially with a few chocolate chips thrown in.  Did you know that leftover oatmeal can be transformed into an oatmeal bread?

In my opinion, oatmeal or peanut butter cookies have to be more nutritious than most boxed cereal.  If you have the time and ingredients, make a batch several times larger than  you need for 2 days.  Then form the dough into logs, wrap in wax paper, tinfoil and finally put in a zip lock bread.  You have instant  “slice and bake” cookies!

If you have extra time, and eggs are on sale, make a bunch of egg burritos (eggs, sausage, onion, green peppers etc).  Assemble in a tortilla, being careful to fold the ends in neatly.  Wrap each individually and freeze.  When we make waffles, I often make enough to freeze for a future breakfast.

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Since I endeavor to make Sundays a special, celebratory day, that is when we usually do our “meat and potatoes” meal.  We usually also have our nicest dessert of the week.  It is usually whatever meat has been on sale, and I figure about half again as much as we will eat.  That means if I normally need 3 pounds of roast to feed us, I will try to buy a 4.5 or 5 pound roast. This also gives us a little leeway to have guests.

This is our normal progression for various meats:
Beef Roast- Beef and Noodles over Potatoes,   The next day it’s transformed, with a few cans of veggies (or leftover veggies), an onion and can of tomato sauce into soup.  I try to buy or make rolls or some type of bread to go with the soup.  (What is wonderful is if you can make bread bowls!)  The soup from last night, perhaps thinner and with a few more additions, usually feeds us again for lunch.

Pork Roast or Pork Chops-  These usually become a stir fry or rice/veggie/meat casserole the next day.  Then, with some creative additions, it too becomes soup or stew or I just add more veggies and rice plus cream of mushroom soup for a casserole variation.

Chicken…oh the possibilities!  – Leftover chicken can of course be a stir fry, or a chicken and noodle casserole.  One favorite lately is to mix in a large cream of mushroom, large cream of chicken and warm in the crockpot.  They children like it served over mashed potatoes, noodles or bread.  Then of course, that can become a casserole or a soup.  We purposely cook more chicken breasts so my daughter can make chicken salad, which can be served on bread or lettuce.

Another supper or lunch is the old-fashioned stuffed potatoes.  I often make extra potatoes with our meat meal.  The extra potatoes can be reheated, hand mashed (you don’t’ want them whipped), placed in a cake pan and lathered with butter or margarine.  Leftover veggies, meat, and cheese are then layered on and broiled.    A current favorite is “pizza potatoes”.  I sparingly add spaghetti sauce, possibly some pepperoni, sausage or hamburger, and a layer of cheese.

We do try to keep some chimichangas from Sam’s or some frozen pizzas in the deep freeze.  This is for times when I don’t have time to cook, need a break, or we are super busy.  Self-control must be used so you don’t raid those when you don’t need to. Remind yourself that your stash has to last for 2 weeks or a month-whatever your shopping style!

Popcorn, apples with peanut butter and fruit, or cheese tortillas are an easy lunch.  We usually use popcorn instead of chips as it’s healthier and less expensive.

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Above all, seek God’s Kingdom and His Righteousness.  Just as one can be a lover of money–whether they have any or not–so we can be so obsessed with every noodle we eat or asparagus we wish we had that that can become our god!  We certainly don’t want to be counted along with those whose god is their stomach!

And when you don’t know what to make, stand in your kitchen, calm your heart, and ask the Father what you can make with what you have in your hand.

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Monique Stam has been Terry‘s helpmate for 24 years.  Their ten children, 4 daughters followed by six sons, are ages 5-22.  While Monique‘s career has been her home and family, she has a degree in Sociology from Wheaton College, IL. As an only child, she has had many adventures learning the ins and outs of home educating a full house.  The first of her booklets in the Learning Series is expected to be available in the fall.  Join her at her sporadic blog www.journeyintojoy.blogspot.com.

We Time {guest post}

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Dear Readers – I asked Anna from Learning Littlebits to guest post after I read a lovely comment she left on my post Caring For Yourself – The Me Time Myth Revisited.  I loved what she had to say and wanted her to share her heart here.  She told me she had intended to write a fun little post about what We Time looks like in her family, but as she prayed over the post, it took a very different turn.  I love it when God works like that and I pray you will be immensely blessed by what Anna has to share.

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The beginning of 2011 brought my family some difficult challenges.  We found ourselves in a place we did not want to be.  This caused me to ask, “how did we end up here?”

God’s word tells me that “I do not have, because I do not ask.” (James 4:2)  So, I asked God to show me why my family was so disconnected, why were we hurting so badly, and why were we falling apart?

God is faithful and He answered, with this:

Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth.  Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

  •  Was I patient and kind with my husband and my children?
  • Was I arrogant and rude?
  • Was I irritable and resentful?
  • Did I delight in seeing my husband or my children do wrong?
  • Was I bearing all things, believing and hoping for the best for my husband and children?
  • Was I enduring all things for my family?

God showed me the problem; the problem was me!

I was shocked because I love my family!  I take care of them everyday.  I cook, clean, educate.  I kiss boo-boo’s, change dirty diapers, wipe runny noses. How could I not be loving my family?

As I continually meditated and prayed over 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, it was clear I was not loving my family.  I was going through the motions.  I was taking care of my family out of duty and obligation; not out of love.  I woke up every morning not looking forward to the day ahead.

I was impatient and rude to my husband and children. I was rude if my husband was late home from work. I would snap if I had to keep addressing the same behaviors over and over in my children.

I was irritable and resentful.  I resented the fact that my husband would get to leave everyday and go to work (okay, in my mind it was more like a vacation at the office), while I slaved all day at home.  I basically made my family feel guilty for being alive.

I did delight in seeing my husband and children do wrong, because I could use it as a weapon against them, to make them feel more guilty.

I spent my days trying to find ways to escape and when I didn’t get time to myself I would become bitter.  I felt my husband should do more, my kids should appreciate me more.  I became all about me.  I thought only of myself, not God, not my family, just me.  My focus was not on serving others, but on how others could serve me.

I was not enduring for my family.

ENDURING Lasting; continuing without perishing; bearing; sustaining; supporting with patience, or without opposition or yielding. (Webster 1828 dictionary)

Every wise woman builds her house, but a foolish one tears it down with her own hands. Prov. 14:1

The notes for this verse in my ESV Study Bible state, “Sinful people sometimes become highly irrational and foolishly destroy the fruit of many years of work.”

That was me.  I was the foolish woman tearing down my own house.

I had forgotten to love;  I forgot that I rise each morning to care for my family because of love.  Not because I expect something in return.

Don’t be selfish; don’t try to impress others. Be humble, thinking of others as better than yourselves.  Don’t look out only for your own interests, but take an interest in others, too.

You must have the same attitude that Christ Jesus had. Philippians 2:3-5

I must have the same attitude as Christ Jesus…..Jesus died on the cross for my sin because He loved me.  Sacrificial love…keeping no record of wrongs….no resentment…just love.

Amazing!

It’s been a year since God taught me this lesson and our lives are changing for the better.   We are a family being transformed by love.  I rise every morning with the same goal in mind… to love my family well.  To love cooking for them, cleaning up after them and educating them.  To love kissing boo-boo’s, changing diapers, wiping noses.  Just to love, no score keeping, no resentment just smiles and love.  By God’s grace it is getting easier everyday to break the old patterns.

The desire to love led me to “We Time”.  This is time to connect with my husband and children.  A time they have my attention to share what is on their hearts.  It is the desire to spend time with others instead of myself.

So what does “We Time” look like at our house?  It’s very simple really.

Marriage “We Time”

  •  Go out for lunch or dinner.
  •  Take a walk in the park.
  •  Talking over morning coffee before the kids wake up.
  •  Pick an interest and enjoy it together like fishing, target shooting, hiking, cooking etc.
  •  Crawl in bed early so you have time to snuggle, pray together and dream together.
  •  Keep a journal in the nightstand filled with questions to get to know each other better and fill in the answers.
  •  Ask your husband how can your pray for him, or what can you do to make his day better?
  •  Couch Time, spend 15-30 minutes together on the couch together.  The kids can play quietly, but they are not allowed to interrupt this time between mommy and daddy.
  •  Send love notes.  I like to send little emails to my husband throughout the week to let him know how much I appreciate him.

{I would not recommend watching movies or TV often this is to be a time for conversation and bonding.}

“We Time” with Children

  • Take a child or two shopping, treat them to lunch or ice cream and talk.
  • Take a walk or bike ride as a family or play kickball together this is cheaper than joining the gym *smile*.
  • Learn a craft or skill together.
  • Have a child help you prepare supper, this is a great time to talk with older kids as sometimes they open up better when busy doing something.
  • Keep a journal for you and the kids too.  They can share their favorite bible verses with your and their prayer requests.  You can share special stories with them from your childhood or any special memories you have of them when they were little.
  • Look through family scrapbooks together.
  • Study the bible together.  Share with the kids what your learning.
  • Saturday morning donut breakfast, my kids personal favorite.  We get donuts from a local donut shop and sit around the kitchen table talking.

{This of course is not an exhaustive list.}

“We time” will look different for each family, it’s just about relationships and spending time together.  It’s about creating marital oneness, family bonds and being an example to my children on how to put others first.

Because of we time my family enjoys being together again.  Our house is filled with laughter and my teenagers don’t hide in their rooms anymore, they like to hang out with mom and dad.

Here is the great paradox, when I became purposeful about “we time” I became a better “me” and became less interested in escaping my family.  But, my family now wanted to give me some time for myself.  Now, my husband brings me a cup of coffee and says, “go spend some time setting your goals for the month, I’ve got the kids.”  Or my kids will clean up after supper so I can relax in a bubble bath.  This is the best kind of me time because it is given to me in love as a gift.

Ann from Learning LittlebitsAnna is happily married to Brian, her middle school sweetheart and spends her days laughing and learning with their 7 kids.  She loves a good cup of coffee with a piece of french silk pie and is obsessed with cloth diapers, books and office supplies.    She shares her thoughts at Learning Littlebits.

An Honest Mess

My wonderfully hilarious friend, Nony, is back again guest posting here on Raising Arrows with some encouragement for those of you who are struggling with keeping a neat and tidy home. I asked her to include a lot of links to her own blog, A Slob Comes Clean, so you can really dig deep into the baby steps she is taking to “deslob.”  It is my prayer you will find hope and encouragement in her journey, as well as find ways to apply it to your own life!


I’m a slob. I’ve been a slob all of my life. When I was a teenager, and even as a college student, I laughed along with the friends who teased me about it. But when I became a mom . . . a full-time stay-at-home mom, and my slob-problem didn’t magically disappear like I had always assumed it would . . . it became a source of shame.

Give me a big project or an event to organize, and I’m in my element. But ring my doorbell without 48 hours notice . . . and I get heart palpitations.

I was completely baffled over how to keep my home from spiraling out of control. I’d try to change, but as soon as life happened (which it tends to do quite often), I’d suddenly look up to see clutter everywhere and with no idea when I last cleaned the toilets.

Two years ago, without telling anyone, I started a blog called A Slob Comes Clean. I was desperate to figure out why I am this way, and I had to find a way to keep my focus. It was my place to share my struggles with total honesty.

I didn’t realize in the beginning, but that’s what my deslobification journey has been about.

Honesty.

Honesty with myself. I have an amazing ability to come up with some doozies of excuses. Early on, though, I realized that my process had to not focus on the excuses themselves, but on the fact that they were . . . excuses. I wanted a clean house. Not the justification for a messy one. Excuses weren’t getting me anywhere.

Honesty with my family. Ironically, I think I grasped this concept because I didn’t tell them about my blog at first. I didn’t hold a family meeting and declare that everything was going to change around here . . . once and for all! I just started making changes, taking on all of the responsibility that truly did fall to me as the mother. The full-time home manager. I waited until the changes in our home began to speak for themselves before I spoke. Then, when I did speak, my words were true.

Honesty with the world. This was the hardest of all. The state of my home was my greatest source of shame and it kept me from being the real me. I couldn’t be hospitable, spontaneous, creative . . . anything that required a place to sit down or a place to work. I blogged anonymously, petrified that someone would find out my deep dark secret. It was almost a year before I shared with any but my closest friends and family.

I’ve been surprised at the effects of my ever-increasing honesty.

Being honest with myself has resulted in real change. By laying it all out, I was finally able to come up with ways to keep my house under control. Not allowing myself to pretend that I was someone I was not, or had time that didn’t actually exist, allowed me to part with truckloads of craft supplies, too-small clothes, and baking items that would be the envy of Paris chefs.

Being honest with my family allowed me to experience their love and support . . . and help. As long as I lived in denial about how bad my slob-problem was, I couldn’t experience their cheers, their willingness to pitch in, and their acceptance.

Being honest with the world has been the hardest, but perhaps the most rewarding. Turns out, most people aren’t perfect. And most people don’t like perfect people. I’ve been amazed (over and over) at how many people relate to my struggles. As I learned I was not alone, others have expressed relief to know that they were not alone. And even though it’s something I’m still working toward, bringing the put-together-in-public-who-would-guess-that-she’s-a-slob me and the I-have-struggles-but-so-does-everyone-else-so-let’s-support-each-other-as-we-work-to-change me together into the same person . . . is a relief.

Nony shares (with complete honesty) her personal deslobification journey at A Slob Comes Clean. She is a full-time mother of three who strives to make her home a reflection of herself and her family. Getting rid all of the stuff that they don’t need makes that much easier. Check out the methods she has developed to keep her home in order that work for her unique slob brain.

Homeschooling with Joy

Today’s Guest Post is from my dear, dear friend Rachel at Finding Joy.  I met Rachel years ago and she never, ever forgets to send me a note on the anniversary of Emily’s Home-going…because that day is also Rachel’s birthday.  Love you, Rachel!

Homeschooling with Joy

It’s September. The time of year when the excitement of a new homeschooling year fills our homes. There’s the curriculum, and the falling leaves, and eager (for the most part) kids, and fresh schedules. I love September. My spirit, energy and zest for life is high.

But, in a couple months it will be November and the daily grind will be setting in. Dishes, laundry, drilling those math facts – the ones that should have been known the first week of October, and coming up with a creative lunch, start to take over our time. There are lessons to drive through, driveways to clear, and kitchens to clean. After awhile all of the stuff to do, that daily grind, can pull the joy right out of our lives.

It doesn’t have to.

The joy can stay.

In fact, I believe that living a joyful life involves intentionally seeking, intentionally looking and intentionally  finding joy. So often we think that we’ll be happy when this happens or if that is taken care of or when we’re over this health crisis or we’re out of this financial burden. But, friends, life is full of those deep valleys and burdens as well as those dry daily grind moments. It became clear to me several years ago that I was living life “on hold” waiting for the ideal circumstances — or at least what I thought to be the ideal circumstances — to play out. And I was unhappy. Sullen. Waiting around for my idea of the good life.

It was right in front of me.

I just wasn’t seeing it.

I remember making a choice to find joy in the every day little moments of life. And life? It started to become this beautiful journey. Even in the hard parts. Last winter, when my son Samuel was in the hospital after being diagnosed with Celiac Disease, I remember praying for joy. He was sleeping in my arms, peaceful, and I was rocking in a chair alone in the hospital with only the steady sounds of his iv and the whir of the fan in the corner. As I rocked, unsure of the future, I prayed for joy and peace to fill my heart. As the chair moved back and forth I became so grateful for the little blond boy who was safe in my arms sleeping. There was good in the midst of trial.

So how about homeschooling? It can get tough and wearing and there will be those days when you wonder what you’re doing. I know. I’ve been there. But, I didn’t want to stay there. So, instead, I prayed about homeschooling and mothering and joy. These are a couple ways that I keep my mind focused on living an intentional and joyful life – my prayer is that when you are in the depths of homeschooling that you can remember one of this tips and it will bless and encourage you.

1) The Little Things Matter. Keep your eyes open and peeled for the joy in the everyday. Maybe it’s the toddler who discovers the light switch or the six year old who made his own sandwich or your teenager who understands that complex geometry problem or the beauty in the rain falling out the window. There are glimmers of beauty in the every day moments. But, you have to be aware. Looking. And that takes practice.

2) Incorporate Prayer. Prayer isn’t meant to be just a morning or before bed or before dinner thing. It’s an all day, every day necessity. We choose to pray throughout the day and incorporate it into our lives. Constantly recognizing the need for our Savior and the blessings that He has given us increases gratitude and joy.

3) Character First, Academics Second. My childrens’ character comes first. If there is an attitude issue than that needs to take front seat to the math that has to (and will) get finished. So often, it’s a heart issue — meaning I need to step away from my agenda to train and encourage my little ones. When the heart is right learning comes easier.

4) Take time to laugh. Seriously. Stop what you’re doing and get down and play with your kids. Run in the sprinkler, find a great book, paint with watercolors — just start taking time to enjoy those gifts that the Lord has placed in front of you. Laughing is good medicine.

5) Establish a Routine. I’ve written about my schedule before — it’s flexible — but there still is an underlying sense of routine. Children thrive knowing where the fences, the boundaries are located. Having a routine creates security and movement throughout the day. And because of that there is more time spent together and productive versus trying to figure out what to do next.

You can do it. I know you can.

And on those days where it feels like it’s too much the first thing I’d tell you to do is to stop whatever your doing, step back, and pray. Even if it’s at 10:11 in the morning. Just stop. Pray and ask our gracious Father to fill you, your children, and your home with His joy. Real, authentic joy.

I’m going to end by sharing a favorite verse of mine in Psalms. Every year our family chooses a life verse — a verse to pray and meditate on throughout the year. Several years ago we settled on Psalm 65:11. That section of Scripture has encouraged me so much throughout my journey. I am blessed by David’s words as He describes our Savior and Lord as the source of all joy. It is a beautiful reminder for me to seek Him and to view this world, that He created, with eyes of joy.

You visit the earth and water it; you greatly enrich it;
the river of God is full of water; you provide their grain,
for so you have prepared it.

You water its furrows abundantly, settling its ridges,
softening it with showers, and blessing its growth.

You crown the year with your bounty;
your wagon tracks overflow with abundance.

The pastures of the wilderness overflow,
the hills gird themselves with joy,
the meadows clothe themselves with flocks,
the valleys deck themselves with grain,
they shout and sing together for joy.

Psalm 65:9-13 (ESV)

Simple Ways to Reach the Hearts of Our Children

Today’s guest post is from Jamerrill of Holy Spirit-Led Homeschooling.  I “met” Jamerrill via blogging and even had her as an advertiser when her blog was just a fledgling.  Since that time she has sprouted wings and the Lord has used her and her blog in mighty ways!  Please welcome Jamerrill! (oh, and if you are wondering how to pronounce her name, I just came right out and asked her…it’s JAYmerrill…and now you know!)

Simple Ways to Reach the Hearts of Our Children

Gaining and keeping the hearts of our children is a full-time job in which we must employ an eternal prospective. I daily pray and ask the Lord for simple ways to reach my children’s hearts. Some days I feel that I failed miserably, but that is where God‘s grace picks up where I leave off. I prayerfully keep the mindset that every minute I am together with my children is another opportunity for me to sow more of God’s truth and goodness into their lives.  If I hold their heart, I can draw them to His. Heart keeping doesn’t have to be complicated.  It does however cost our most precious commodity, our time. It is important that we adjust our focus so that we see that everything we do along side our children is reaching their hearts for eternity.

Here are some simple ways we can reach the hearts of our children:

Draw and color together - This is free.  Out of our five children thus far, I have one wild card, strong-willed, tiger-of-a-child.  (May I also throw in that this child is the only girl and the middle child.)  I know the Lord made her very strong for a reason. I asked the Lord to show me ways to reach her heart.  He showed me one of the simplest ways to reach her heart is drawing with her.  It’s during these times of drawing puppies, kitties and “snake babies,” that I find she’s touching my arm on purpose or snuggling very close.

Board Games - Yes, the long drawn out ones that take hours.  I just finished a massive Monopoly game with our older sons {8 & 11} that stretched over two days and took over six hours to complete.  When we play games as a family, we strengthen our bonds and have volumes of great conversation. I accomplish these longer games with our older children during the naptime of younger children or in the evening and on my husband‘s days off.

Cooking -  Some of our favorite times as a family are when we’re cooking together.  I use mealtime as a training ground for life skills and heart cultivating.  My 10-year old can scramble eggs and make toast.  Our younger children love helping by spreading biscuits on a baking sheet.  I have another child who is keen on making Jell-O and brownies.  All of these cooking activities can be completed beside me while I’m working in the Kitchen.

Family Reading Time - We are all wild about reading great books as a family. Of course, the Bible is the greatest book and is at the forefront of our reading time. Everyone loves to flop down on a snuggly couch, or quilt under our shady tree, and get lost together for hours in great reading.  I believe our reading time is a massive door to the hearts of my children.  Our deeply spiritual conversations usually sprout as we’re reading God’s word together.  Jesus grabs all of our hearts and pulls us together towards His.

Work -  Whether it’s working on chores with mom or changing the oil with dad, I see our children strengthened after we’ve worked together.  Working side-by-side with my children allows me to instill in them a good work ethic and values that God and family matter most.

Their interest - What about Legos, playing tag and jumping on the trampoline?   As often as I’m able, I spend time doing something additional they’re interested in.  My children build Legos, so I build Legos.  When my small children nap, I’ll jump on the trampoline with our older children.  In addition, everyone turns to giggles when we play tag or hide-n-seek as a family, and mom gets some exercise thrown in!

Most important -  The most important aspect of reaching your children’s hearts is to call on the name of the Lord.  Pray, seek, ask, knock. Lift your children up in prayer to the One whom created them for His purpose and predestined you to have authority over them for this season.  What a privilege we have to be used by Him to usher these eternal souls toward the throne of His grace.  He will give you wisdom as to what each child needs specifically, to reach their hearts for Him.

Jamerrill Stewart loves Jesus fiercely.  She and her husband Travis have been married for 13 years and are the blessed paretns to 5 children ages 11, 8, 5, 2, and infant.  Jamerrill writes about homeschooling-on-the-cheap, frugal/large family living, and all things Jesus at Holy Spirit-Led Homeschooling.

Menu Planning for Homeschool Moms {guest post}

Note from Amy: I met Tiffany King at the Savvy Blogging Summit this year when she handed my her business card during a session and I exclaimed, “I need you!”  It was the name of her website that caught my attention: Eat At Home.  Worn out homeschooling moms everywhere can benefit from Tiffany’s message and her mission to show moms that preparing quick and easy meals doesn’t have to be drudgery and one more thing on their to-do list.  I think you’ll love her new ebook, Feast in 15, where she shows you how easy it is to create spectacular weeknight meals that fit into a busy homeschool mom schedule!  Get your copy today!

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All of us who homeschool have the same demands as other moms. The difference is that we’re with our kids nearly all the time and we’re responsible for teaching them during a large portion of that time. Daily schedules can swing wildly between being at home, to being out of the house all day.

So how do we get meals on the table with so much going on? Here are a few tips:

Focus on dinner

Dinner is often the big meal of the day. (If your big meal is lunch, then adjust this tip accordingly.) If you can get dinner taken care of, the rest seems easy.

Plan with your available cooking time in mind.

  • If you have 10 or 15 minutes in the morning to work on dinner, then a slow cooker meal is in order.
  • If you find time during lunch, you can assemble a casserole or do a slow cooker meal that only needs 4-6 hours of cooking time.
  • A day of appointments and lessons might call for a quick 15 minute meal. See my new eBook, Feast in 15 for lots of good recipes.
  • If it’s one of those rare days when you’ll be home and have time to spare, fix those favorites that take a bit more time.

By looking ahead at your schedule, you can plan your menu with your days in mind. Make the menu fit your family, not the other way around.

Make use of your freezer.

  • Pre-cook meats and freeze them. This keeps meal prep on busy days to a minimum.
  • Make double batches of soups, stews and casseroles and stock your freezer.

Keep ingredients for a few “emergency” meals.

Stock your pantry with the ingredients for a couple of easy meals that you can pull together at the last minute. Knowing you have those recipes to fall back on will keep you from running through the drive through or feeding everyone cereal for dinner (we’ve all been there!).

Breakfast

I may be in the minority on this, but we keep breakfast super simple. Not only that, but each person takes care of their own as soon as they’re old enough. We also tend to eat the same thing, day in and day out. We’re okay with that because lunch and dinner are varied enough to make up for the standard breakfast.

Here are a few ideas for simple breakfasts.

  • Quick oats
  • Yogurt and fruit with granola
  • Toast, English muffins, bagels etc.
  • Freeze large batches of pancakes, waffles or muffins. Heat in toaster or microwave.

Lunch

Again, I keep this as simple as possible. Most days do not lend themselves to actually cooking lunch. And even though we don’t eat the same thing everyday, I do not make any menu plan for lunch. We use lunch to eat up leftovers. Some days there’s enough for all of us. Some days there “dibs” are called on the good food from the night before. Other days, no one wants the leftovers!

When the leftover plan doesn’t cover us all, I fill in with these quick items:

What’s your biggest challenge when it comes to cooking for your family?

Tiffany is the founder of Eat at Home, Everyday Food for Busy People. She has also written an eBook, Feast in 15, Speed Cooking Weeknight Dinners that is available as a PDF or on Kindle. She has been married to her husband Jim for 23 years. They have 4 kids, all homeschooled. Their oldest daughter is now in college.