Preparing for a Peaceful Christmas – Week 11

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How did you do with the Week 10 To Do List? Hopefully all the items have been completed and you are now ready for Week 11!

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Just a quick reminder before we get started: These Weekly To Do lists are directly from The 12-Week Holiday Planner. Those of you who have purchased The Holiday Planner will have all the forms that go along with the To Do Lists. If you have not purchased the planner, then you will need to make your own forms or buy your own copy!

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This week we will finishing up any shopping and wrapping, as well as planning some fun family activities!

Week 11: Final Shopping/Wrapping Week

[ ] Last Minute To Do List! Using the calendar page provided, jot down last minute to do items to be completed, holiday parties, concerts, and family activities.

Accountability:

Once you have completed this list, come back here and tell us about it! Let’s encourage each other to plug away at these “to do’s” now so that our holidays can be less stressful and more focused on Jesus!

Preparing for Peaceful Christmas – Week 10

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How did you do with the Week 9 To Do List? Hopefully all the items have been completed and you are now ready for Week 10!

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Just a quick reminder before we get started: These Weekly To Do lists are directly from The 12-Week Holiday Planner. Those of you who have purchased The Holiday Planner will have all the forms that go along with the To Do Lists. If you have not purchased the planner, then you will need to make your own forms or buy your own copy!

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This week we will be getting some freezer cooking, holiday baking, and some decorating done! Fun!


Note from Amy:  This is a very fun week!  Try to get at least one freezer meal prepared (check out my Freezer Meals Pinterest Board for ideas).  This is also a great time to put together cookie trays to share with neighbors and send to work with your husband.  And of course, we can’t forget the decorating!  Make it special with a Decorating Party!


Week 10: Meal Making & Decorating Week

[ ] Prepare Some Freezer Meals! Prepare some favorite meals to put in the freezer for the hectic days ahead. Turn to your Freezer Meals list & Recipe Cards (filed under the Holiday Menus & Recipes section) and use it to check off as you complete dishes and put them in the freezer. Keep this list handy so you know what dishes you have in the freezer. Cross them off as you use them during the holiday season.

[ ] Holiday Baking! Turn to your List of Baked Items to Share/Give Away and the Holiday Baking Recipes (filed under the Holiday Baking section) and use to check off as you complete baked goods and put them in the freezer. Note: You already had one Holiday Baking Day, so take note of what you have in the freezer already! You may not want all your baked goods to go in the freezer now. Make sure you do some holiday baking for your own family to enjoy, as well as finishing up baking for others.

[ ] Decorate for Christmas! Involve children in memory making! Use the calendar page provided to plan some special things to do with your children this week. See my list for some ideas!

Accountability:

Once you have completed this list, come back here and tell us about it! Let’s encourage each other to plug away at these “to do’s” now so that our holidays can be less stressful and more focused on Jesus!

Can You Have a Peaceful Christmas When Your Life is Messy?

Is it possible to enjoy the holidays when your life is in upheaval?  | RaisingArrows.netWhen I contacted Sheri Graham about writing the 12 week series for the Holiday Planner, entitled Preparing for a Peaceful Christmas, I knew Christmas was going to be a bit crazy since I was due with baby #9 on December 22; however, what I didn’t know was that I would also be moving right before Thanksgiving!

Life got messy.

Here we are 3 weeks from Christmas, and I still have boxes to unpack, and the items I’ve managed to unpack already don’t all have homes.  My kitchen is only semi-operational.  My bedroom is a mess.  We just got all of the clothes out of suitcases, and I keep finding boxes marked “Books” with no place to put them!

Oh, and having a baby…yeah, that’s still on the To Do List as well!  (I really hope I find all the baby stuff in the next couple of weeks!)

It’s almost as if my Preparing for a Peaceful Christmas series is mocking me.

But, the truth of the matter is, this year, perhaps more than any other year, I NEED to try to have a peaceful Christmas.  Actually, let me rephrase that…

I need to be AT PEACE this Christmas.

That’s what the 12 Week Holiday Planner has always been for me – the anchor that keeps me from stressing.  In fact, even now when life is almost completely upside-down, and we aren’t even sure when we’ll be celebrating Christmas, I still have a sense of peace because I’ve done what I can.

A few weeks ago, I wrote a Christmas letter in the middle of the night when I couldn’t sleep.  I made my lists for each child, and utilized WishBin (the giveaway is almost over, so be sure to enter to win HERE!).  We decorated the tree for Christmas and had our party, but not on the grand scale we usually do.  We are taking things slow and trying not to rush despite the fact that everything feels like it is rushing around us.

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Is it perfect?  No.

But, it doesn’t change the fact that what we are celebrating is perfect.

Do you think Mary had planned things the way they turned out?

Do you think it all seemed perfect from the outside looking in?

Did any of it make sense at the time?

Yet, there was peace.

It was the peace that passes all understanding.  It was the peace that comes from knowing that despite the chaos around you, you have the assurance that all is just the way it is supposed to be.  It is the peace that we have today, knowing that it isn’t about the presents or the crafts or the perfection, but rather about a tiny baby born to save the world from itself.

My life is messy.

Perfectly messy.

A Family Christmas Decorating Party!

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Ever since our oldest was little, we have set aside the weekend after Thanksgiving to decorate for Christmas.  As we’ve added more children to the family, our traditions have evolved into a party atmosphere full of amazing memories!  Today, I want to invite you to create something similar in your home.

Note from Amy:  I found this unpublished post in my archives.  The photos are from 2 babies ago and 3 years ago.  It has been neat to see how our children have changed, but our tradition of having a decorating party really hasn’t.  I hope you enjoy this post!

First, let’s set the scene…

The day is pretty much a Thanksgiving leftovers and special treats kind of day.  I make a few Christmasy type snacks (think toffee or fudge) and put on some Festive Hot Punch.

Of course, there must be Christmas music!  We have a whole stash of Christmas CDs, but this year we’ll be adding the iTunes Christmas stations to our lineup as well since I can play them from the iPad and put it anywhere in the house!

The boxes of Christmas decorations are brought up from the basement and we start to work on the tree.  In our current home, we have to do a bit of furniture rearranging first, but that’s not a big deal since Daddy and Blake are there to help.

And yes, we have a fake tree.  It is nearly as old as I am, handed down from my parents when Ty and I were first married.  Every year it loses a few more needles and every year we say we are going to buy another and every year after seeing the price tag of new trees, we decide the old tree will make it…one more year.

Next come the lights

hanging lights on tree

Ever since we were a family of 3, it was Blake and Daddy’s job to string the lights.  Frustrating as this can be, it’s a tradition that they guys wouldn’t have any other way.  And back to the fake tree thing…one of our qualification for a new tree involves one that is NOT pre-lit.  Do you have any idea how hard it is to find one of those?!

Once the lights are strung (and we are confident they work!), out come the icicles!

Some of you probably just let out an audible gasp at the thought of icicles.  Ty has such fond memories of hanging icicles on the tree with his Granny that he couldn’t imagine a tree any other way.  Do they fall off and get all over the house?  Yes.  We just scoop them up and throw them back on the tree.  ;)

Christmas ornaments

Once the icicles are hung (and mom and dad have rearranged them so they aren’t all at waist-height), it is mama’s job to pass out the ornaments.  The ornaments are stored in packages with each child’s name on them.  We have quite a few personalized ornaments so to keep them stored neatly and to minimize the chaos that typically ensues at this point in the decorating, having them separated out by child makes mama’s life easier.

I sit on the floor with the ornament box and a small box of ornament hooks.  The older kids take care of their own bags and hooks, but I hand the younger children their ornaments with the hook already in and Daddy guides them to a spot on the tree.

The final touch is the tree topper.  We like to have a lit star as our tree topper to symbolize the star over Bethlehem.  We turn off all the lights and everyone stands around the tree as Daddy lifts the star to the top and plugs it in.  There are cheers and oohs and aahs as we gaze at our freshly-lit family Christmas tree.

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Once the tree is in place, the younger children beg mama to get out the Playmobil Nativity Set.

Last year we had to purchase a new one because ours has been loved on so much in the past 10 years since my sister bought it for our children that it had pieces missing and the cardboard stable was in shreds.  We opted to buy the set with the hard plastic stable and add on the Wise Men Set.

I also like to have a small set of baby-friendly toys under the tree for the current baby/toddler.  This could be something like the Fisher-Price Little People Nativity

or the Melissa & Doug set

Of course, there is a lot of other decorating we do inside and outside, but this post isn’t really supposed to be about me, but rather making YOUR Christmas Decorating Day special.  So, here are a few ideas for you to get started with your own Family Christmas Decorating Party this year!

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*Set the mood with food – This is a time of celebration, so set the mood with some holiday food!  Choose a few family holiday favorites and put them out on a tray to snack on during the festivities.  If you don’t want to go to the trouble of making them or the expense of buying them, lay out some the Thanksgiving leftovers!  Grab some hot cocoa or coffee and creamer or cider and get to decorating!

*Set the mood with music – Tis the season for Christmas music!  If you haven’t collected any favorite CDs over the years, check out iTunes Christmas radio stations or Amazon Prime’s FREE Christmas albums!

*Start your own family traditions – Our traditions are a conglomeration of things Ty and I did as children and things that have become dear to us as we’ve had our own children.  We also ask our children every year what part of Decorating Day they enjoy the most and try our hardest to incorporate those into the festivities.

*Don’t stress! – Stressing over making the party perfect will turn something fun into a disaster quickly.  Remember, children are children and the decorating will be a little haphazard and a little chaotic, but if you remain low-key, the day will still feel festive to all involved.

Preparing for a Peaceful Christmas – Week 9

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How did you do with the Week 8 To Do List? Hopefully all the items have been completed and you are now ready for Week 9!

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Just a quick reminder before we get started: These Weekly To Do lists are directly from The 12-Week Holiday Planner.  Those of you who have purchased The Holiday Planner will have all the forms that go along with the To Do Lists. If you have not purchased the planner, then you will need to make your own forms or buy your own copy!

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This week we will getting those gifts shipped, Christmas cards done and mailed, and looking at doing some sort of Advent Countdown! Have fun!

Note from Amy:  When my 13 year old daughter was asked what her favorite Christmas tradition is, she immediately said our Advent Countdown traditions.  We do several from a Jesse Tree to a Snowman Advent box, to Truth in the Tinsel for the little ones.  It is a part of our evening Family Worship Time during Advent season, and it truly has become dear to all of us.  Don’t neglect this precious family time!

Week 9: Mailing Week

[ ] Ship Gifts! Complete package wrapping for gifts to be shipped and ship them! Use the Christmas Gifts to Be Shipped form provided if you want to make a list of the gifts to be wrapped and shipped if you desire. Then check these off as you get them shipped. File this form under the Christmas Gifts section for future reference.

[ ] Complete Your Christmas Cards! Using the Christmas Card Checklist filed under the Christmas Card section, complete addressing and mailing your Christmas Cards this week.

[ ] Advent Countdown! Another idea for Advent is to have an Advent Countdown until Christmas. See more detail below!

[ ] Begin Jesse Tree Devotionals! There are many types of Advent activities that a family could do. Check our Holiday Resources page on The Holiday Planner website for our recommendations. There are a lot of options to choose from!

Accountability:

Once you have completed this list, come back here and tell us about it! Let’s encourage each other to plug away at these “to do’s” now so that our holidays can be less stressful and more focused on Jesus!

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Simplify Your Christmas Gift Giving with WishBin and Win Your Wish List!

When I first heard about WishBin.com, I was beyond excited!  Then, I found out it was free AND all my kids could be added – they had me hooked!  You are going to love this!

Put your gift wish list in WishBin - any site on the internet, all your friends and family can see exactly what everyone in your family wants!WishBin is a browser plug-in that allows you to drag and drop gift ideas from any site on the internet into a Wish List.  That means you can have items from Amazon, Cabela’s, and JM Cremp’s all in one wish list with one link for your loved ones to peruse!  Perfect!

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And you don’t even have to WishBin items that can be purchased online.  Like that beautiful purple bohemian skirt you saw on Pinterest?  If you can Pin It, you can Bin It!

Here’s the other great thing – I was able to add individual WishBins for ALL of my children!Create a WishBin wish list for each of your children - drag and drop their gift ideas into  their wishbin where friends and family can see and purchase!

WishBin isn’t just for Christmas either!  You can separate each event – Birthday, Baby Shower, Mother’s Day – with a separate WishBin!  There is a Public or Private mode so you can keep gift items a secret from everyone except those with an access code, and you can set Reminders so you don’t forget any special events coming up.

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And here’s the really exciting part…

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