Cooking for a Crew by Stretching What You Have {guest post}

The last article I could imagine myself writing is one on cooking.   Unlike some of my friends, it’s not a favorite thing to do.  I don’t mind when I can take it at a leisurely pace.

There was a time I made yogurt, bread and tried new things often.  Then I had a child with a disability and parents that needed assistance and there just wasn’t a lot of time for food preparation.  But people still needed to eat, and I needed to feed my growing, large family frugally!

My method comes from martyred missionary Jim Elliot’s widow, Elisabeth Elliot.  As far as I know, she does not have a lecture or an article on cooking, but one of the many things that helped me was her method of problem-solving, which was to ask

“What do I have in my hand?”

This is how Mrs. Elliot handled most challenges that came into her life–that and prayer. There have been many times I’ve stood in my kitchen or been helping a child with schoolwork and the Father has given me an idea!

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For breakfast, the children are somewhat on their own.  We like baked oatmeal, especially with a few chocolate chips thrown in.  Did you know that leftover oatmeal can be transformed into an oatmeal bread?

In my opinion, oatmeal or peanut butter cookies have to be more nutritious than most boxed cereal.  If you have the time and ingredients, make a batch several times larger than  you need for 2 days.  Then form the dough into logs, wrap in wax paper, tinfoil and finally put in a zip lock bread.  You have instant  “slice and bake” cookies!

If you have extra time, and eggs are on sale, make a bunch of egg burritos (eggs, sausage, onion, green peppers etc).  Assemble in a tortilla, being careful to fold the ends in neatly.  Wrap each individually and freeze.  When we make waffles, I often make enough to freeze for a future breakfast.

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Since I endeavor to make Sundays a special, celebratory day, that is when we usually do our “meat and potatoes” meal.  We usually also have our nicest dessert of the week.  It is usually whatever meat has been on sale, and I figure about half again as much as we will eat.  That means if I normally need 3 pounds of roast to feed us, I will try to buy a 4.5 or 5 pound roast. This also gives us a little leeway to have guests.

This is our normal progression for various meats:
Beef Roast- Beef and Noodles over Potatoes,   The next day it’s transformed, with a few cans of veggies (or leftover veggies), an onion and can of tomato sauce into soup.  I try to buy or make rolls or some type of bread to go with the soup.  (What is wonderful is if you can make bread bowls!)  The soup from last night, perhaps thinner and with a few more additions, usually feeds us again for lunch.

Pork Roast or Pork Chops-  These usually become a stir fry or rice/veggie/meat casserole the next day.  Then, with some creative additions, it too becomes soup or stew or I just add more veggies and rice plus cream of mushroom soup for a casserole variation.

Chicken…oh the possibilities!  – Leftover chicken can of course be a stir fry, or a chicken and noodle casserole.  One favorite lately is to mix in a large cream of mushroom, large cream of chicken and warm in the crockpot.  They children like it served over mashed potatoes, noodles or bread.  Then of course, that can become a casserole or a soup.  We purposely cook more chicken breasts so my daughter can make chicken salad, which can be served on bread or lettuce.

Another supper or lunch is the old-fashioned stuffed potatoes.  I often make extra potatoes with our meat meal.  The extra potatoes can be reheated, hand mashed (you don’t’ want them whipped), placed in a cake pan and lathered with butter or margarine.  Leftover veggies, meat, and cheese are then layered on and broiled.    A current favorite is “pizza potatoes”.  I sparingly add spaghetti sauce, possibly some pepperoni, sausage or hamburger, and a layer of cheese.

We do try to keep some chimichangas from Sam’s or some frozen pizzas in the deep freeze.  This is for times when I don’t have time to cook, need a break, or we are super busy.  Self-control must be used so you don’t raid those when you don’t need to. Remind yourself that your stash has to last for 2 weeks or a month-whatever your shopping style!

Popcorn, apples with peanut butter and fruit, or cheese tortillas are an easy lunch.  We usually use popcorn instead of chips as it’s healthier and less expensive.

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Above all, seek God’s Kingdom and His Righteousness.  Just as one can be a lover of money–whether they have any or not–so we can be so obsessed with every noodle we eat or asparagus we wish we had that that can become our god!  We certainly don’t want to be counted along with those whose god is their stomach!

And when you don’t know what to make, stand in your kitchen, calm your heart, and ask the Father what you can make with what you have in your hand.

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Monique Stam has been Terry‘s helpmate for 24 years.  Their ten children, 4 daughters followed by six sons, are ages 5-22.  While Monique‘s career has been her home and family, she has a degree in Sociology from Wheaton College, IL. As an only child, she has had many adventures learning the ins and outs of home educating a full house.  The first of her booklets in the Learning Series is expected to be available in the fall.  Join her at her sporadic blog www.journeyintojoy.blogspot.com.

Swedish Tea Ring

Swedish Tea RingYears ago, we were introduced to the yummy goodness of Swedish Tea Rings at a Bed & Breakfast in Lindsborg, Kansas.  This town is known as Little Sweden and has quite a rich cultural heritage.

dala horse

The Bed & Breakfast served a rather interesting breakfast of things like lutefisk and hard-boiled eggs, Swedish meatballs, and yes, Swedish Tea Ring.

This past Resurrection Sunday, I decided to revisit this wonderful treat and make a couple of Tea Rings for my family.  The consensus was a hearty, “YUM!”

slice of tea ring

Swedish Tea Ring

1 pkg active dry yeast
1/4 c. warm water
1 c. milk, scalded
1/3 c. sugar
1 tsp salt
1/3 c. shortening (I used butter instead)
2 eggs, beaten
4 1/2 c. flour

Raisin Filling
½ c. sugar
2 Tbsp cinnamon
½ c. raisins

Almond Glaze
1/3 c. butter
2 c. powdered sugar
1½ tsp. almond extract
2-4 Tbsp hot water

Chopped walnuts & Maraschino cherries, optional

Soften yeast in warm water.  Scald milk and add sugar, salt, and shortening.  Cool to 100° (lukewarm).  Stir in 1½ cups flour, dissolved yeast and beat well.  Add eggs.  Add enough remaining flour to make a soft dough.

Turn out onto lightly floured surface.  Knead until smooth and elastic.  Place in lightly greased bowl turning dough to grease entire surface.  Cover and let rise in a warm place until doubled (about 1 hour).  Punch down.  Let rise again until doubled.

Divide dough in half and round up each half.  Roll each half into a 9″x13″ rectangle about ¼” thick.  Spread each half with 1 Tbsp softened butter and half of Raisin Filling.  Roll as for a jelly roll.  Seal edge.  Shape each into a ring with the seam side down.  Place on greased cookie sheet.  With scissors, snip 2/3 of the way to the center at 1½” intervals.

Let rings rise until doubled.  Bake in preheated 375° oven for 20-25 minutes.  Drizzle with Almond Glaze and decorate with nuts and cherries, if desired.

dala horse photo credit

Let Them Make Coffee {Welcome Home Link Up}

About a year ago, we taught our then 10 year old daughter how to make coffee.  She loves coffee and we figured it was something she could easily learn to make and then, in turn, use to serve others (she also makes a mean pitcher of lemonade!)

Last week, our 6 year old decided he wanted to be “big” like his sister and make coffee too.  Thankfully, I caught him before he just dove right in and I helped him get started (and finished).

He donned an apron (because that’s what all good cooks do) and got down to work.  By the time the coffee was brewing, he had actually done very little of the work involved, but he felt like he had truly made the coffee.

Having eager youngsters can be a difficult thing for a mama.  We hear how we are supposed to let them help in the kitchen and we really want to do that, but we have a distorted view of what that looks like.  We envision waist-high kiddos measuring and stirring and grabbing ingredients for us in a way that is truly helpful.  However, more often than not, it looks more like this:

Mom:  “Can you get me the sugar?”

Child:  “Sure!”

3 minutes later…

Child: “MOM!  I can’t find the sugar!”

Mom:  “It on top of the flour bin.”

Child:  “I don’t see it.”

Mom:  “I’ll come get it.”

Mom finds sugar on top of flour bin.

And this goes on and on and on.

I once had a young woman tell me that her mother was very good about letting the children in her family help with things in the kitchen and whenever they would ask, she would say in her sweetest voice with a smile on her face,

“Oh good!  It only takes me twice as long when you help!”

This woman had a correct view of children helping in the kitchen.  She knew it was not going to be easy, but she also knew it was a step in the right direction and one that needed to be taken not to actually have a “helper” in the kitchen but to instill in each child a sense of worth and belonging and to spur them on to even greater things.

So, let them make coffee…or think they did.

This is the LAST WEEK for the Norwex Party, so please, take a look at the catalog, and send your order to my friend Renee, by emailing her at:

drposchen at cox dot net

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This weekend, I was blessed to attend and speak at the most God-honoring blogging conference I have ever attended.  It was the 2:1 Conference in D.C. where the focus was Christian homeschool blogging.  I have come home very tired, but so excited to see what God has in store for the world of Christian homeschool bloggers who use their platform for His glory!

Speaking of blogging as a Christian homeschooler -

In case you missed it, I launched a site last month called Homeschool Bogging.

HomeschoolBlogging.comMy vision for this site is to encourage and educate homeschool bloggers and homeschool businesses to blog and work together in mutually beneficial relationships for the common goal of glorifying Jesus Christ!  If you are a blogger or homeschool business, please take some time to check out the site, subscribe, and grow!

And now onto the Welcome Home Link Up!  It sure is good to be home!


Feeding the Crew

Keian and cantelopeWelcome back to 10 Days of Large Family Homeschooling
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One thing I have found to be challenging as a large family homeschool mom is feeding 3 meals a day plus snacks day in and day out to a rather large and diverse group of people.  At any given time, I have teenagers, toddlers, and babies – all with different palates and needs.

Many of you already know breakfast is not my forte.  I like to eat it, I hate to cook it.  I’ve never been real awake in the mornings.  I can remember as a youngster never feeling as if I had fully awakened until about 10:30 am.  I always wondered why teachers thought math needed to be taught first thing in the morning when I was so very tired.  I am most on top of my game starting late morning and again at about 4:00 pm.  I try to have things on hand that can easily become breakfast, but rare is the occasion that I actually cook a hot breakfast.

*GASP*  Now, you know my secret!

So, now that you know, here’s a list of breakfast ideas – Roberts family style!

  • cereal
  • fruit
  • toast with peanut butter
  • hard boiled eggs
  • muffins
  • breakfast cookies
  • yogurt
  • baked oatmeal
  • pancakes with real maple syrup
  • fried eggs

Next is lunch.  By this point, we have been going strong with school and I almost hate to stop for nourishment!  Lunch happens here between 12 and 1 pm – or whenever there is a natural lull in our school day.  Occasionally, Daddy joins us, but most often, it is me and the 6 children.  We typically have a light lunch rather than something heavy for two reasons:

  1. Our big meal is at night.
  2. It is better and simpler to make something that takes less preparation when in the middle of a school day.

Here are some of our favorite lunch ideas:

After we’ve cleaned up from lunch, we head back into our school day.  If I were pregnant, this would be Rest Time, but as it stands right now, only the 18 month old is taking a nap right after lunch.

Our school day is usually finished around 2:30, but this is not a good time to go outside since our road becomes quite busy at that time of day due to the high school down the road.  So, at about 3:00 pm we have a snack and then head outside.

Snack ideas:

  • cheese & crackers
  • fruit
  • foldover peanut butter sandwich
  • veggie sticks
  • smoothies
  • cookies – yes, cookies ;)

After we have played outside for a while, I head inside (usually with a helper) to prepare for supper/dinner.

Mommy cooking with Garin in Mei Tai

We eat supper between 6 and 7 pm due to Daddy’s schedule.  This is typically our biggest meal of the day since Daddy is home.  This is also the meal I am most creative with.  I like to go through cookbooks and my index box full of recipes I’ve been collecting for over half my life and pull interesting recipes I would like to try or family favorites.

Some recent meals have been:

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DrinkBands Special While I’m at the MPE Homeschool Conference!

Me sitting in my hotel room after a long, exhausting, but fun day at the MPE Conference.

I’m at the Midwest Parent Educator’s Homeschool Conference in Kansas City, Missouri. We’ve really enjoyed hearing Israel Wayne and Kevin Swanson speak this weekend. I’ve been handing out DrinkBands to people along with a coupon code for 15% off.

You can get this same 15% off your order through May 31 using coupon code:
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And take a look at the new Party Pack!

These are great for adding on to the traditional DrinkBands for those who have more than 8 people in their family.  They are also just fun!

And shipping is FREE!  This is the perfect time to get a whole stash!

We’ll be back next week with the second half of 10 Days of Large Family Homeschooling!

You Thought I Should Try Norwex…So I Did! {Welcome Home Link Up}

A few weeks ago, I told you how we had gone back to a One-Day Home Blessing after years of cleaning zones day by day. {yes, we are still thrilled with the results!}

Several people mentioned in the comments of that post and on my facebook page a product I had heard about in passing from my friend, Renee…a product line called Norwex.  Right after I wrote that post, Renee (who had no idea I had just written that post), emailed to ask if I would be interested in learning more about Norwex.  I almost laughed out loud as I typed back and said, “Absolutely!”

Renee sent me the Envirocloth for my kitchen, a window cloth, the dusting mitt as well as a facial cloth.

I have admit when I found out these cleaning products were microfiber, I was a little worried.  I own microfiber cloth diaper inserts and every time I go to stuff my diapers with those particular inserts, I cringe.  Why?  Because they hurt my fingers.  Perhaps I’m the only person who deals with this (remember, I have that lovely thing called Sensory Processing Disorder), but no matter, I had a moment as I was opening Renee’s package when I thought, “These may be the greatest thing since sliced bread, but if they hurt my fingers there is no way I can use them.”

I quickly realized not all microfiber is the same.  Yes, the Envirocloth and the facial cloth were similar to my inserts, but as soon as I wet those down the texture changed completely and I LOVED how they felt!  The polishing cloth and dusting mitt were not rough on my fingers at all.  I was impressed by that simple fact.

Then, I used them…

This is my front window:

We have two huge picture windows in our home.  The front one is where the children stand to watch for Daddy, to watch for deer, and to watch for the mailman.  They pull chairs up to it, press noses against it, and touch it…constantly.

I have always used a name-brand window cleaner because nothing else worked.  Now, don’t get me wrong, I LOVE natural cleaners, but when I can’t find anything that works decently, I’d rather cave and have a smudge-free window…for at least a few seconds.

When I read that all I needed to make the window cloth work was a spray bottle of water, I chuckled and thought, “Yeah, right.” (Sorry, Renee – I am such a skeptic!)

But, I decided to give it a shot…I could always just redo it.

I sprayed on the water and began wiping the window down and was shocked!  The window was not streaked, the smudges came off easily, and it was beautiful!  I ran around the house looking for more windows and mirrors to clean!  In fact, on cleaning day, I insist on being the one to clean all the windows and mirrors!  I love the results that much!

The other items did not disappoint either.  I use the Envirocloth more than my beloved sponges, the facial cloth is amazing, and my daughter (our resident duster) uses the mitt all the time.  In fact, I am searching Renee’s catalog to figure out what else I want…ahem, NEED…because:

This was one of those moments in a homemaker’s life when she realizes the tools of her trade really do matter.

So, please, take a look around Renee’s site and if you would like to order something I get hostess credit (YAY!) if you email your order to her at

drposchen @ cox. net
(remove the spaces)

So, what have you been discovering in the wonderful world of homemaking this week?  Link it up!