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Making Healthy Changes While Pregnant

Making Healthy Changes While Pregnant | RaisingArrows.netEvery pregnancy I say I’m going to to do better.  I’m going to take my vitamins, eat healthy, keep exercising, and come out on the other side better than when I went in.  And every pregnancy, I fail miserably.

Typically, I do great until 5-6 weeks when the morning sickness hits.  Then, I eat only what will stay down.  After the morning sickness is over, I’m just so happy I eat everything in sight!  By this time the thought of vitamins and exercise make me sick, so I avoid them as I pork out, all the time excusing my bad habits as celebrating my pregnancy.

Nice one, Amy.

When it comes to eating healthy and exercising, I have always seen my life as a series of pregnancies with the time in between being the only opportunity I had to get back in shape.  Sometimes that was mere months!  Only a few months to undo a cycle of unhealthy habits, only to find myself right back to my old ways as soon as a new baby was on its way.  And let me tell you, when you’ve been eating poorly for 9 months, it is extremely difficult to go back to eating well and exercising.

Toward the end of my pregnancy with Creed, I started reading Trim Healthy Mama and began to realize pregnancy didn’t need to be a time when I got weaker.  I actually began to be excited about getting stronger and healthier.  Rather than throwing my hands up because I was at the end of my pregnancy anyway, I started to think how much stronger and healthier I would be after baby arrived if I started right then.

So, that’s what I did!

And 6 weeks after baby’s birth, I was back down to pre-pregnancy weight!

4 weeks postpartum

4 weeks postpartum – almost there!

I had a few readers ask for tips on what you can do while pregnant to start making healthy changes, so I decided to write out what I plan to do if the Lord should bless us again.  I hope this helps some of you!

1.  Start Now!  Stop waiting to not be pregnant, and if you’re not currently pregnant, start these healthy habits with the intention of carrying them over into pregnancy.

2.  Make your supplements a habit.  I’m terrible at taking vitamins, but some of it is the fact that I don’t stick with it long enough to make it a habit.  Right now, I’m working on making my vitamins a healthy habit.  I’ve even enlisted the help of my husband to remind me.

3.  A little exercise is better than nothing.  I know, I know…you’re tired and you hurt, but really, all you have to do is 10 minutes of something that is a little more exertion than you are used to.  Take the stairs up to your OB’s office instead of the elevator (yep, that was my exercise of choice ;) ) or do some stretching or find a pregnancy workout on YouTube (there are TONS of these!).  Even now, I take this approach…what time I have to exercise is what time I have.  A little bit is better than nothing.

4.  Eat what will nourish you and baby.  The key word here is NOURISH.  We have to stop seeing food as just something we do.  It has to be seen as the FUEL it is.  What kind of fuel you put in your body will determine how you feel burning that fuel.  And when you are pregnant, you have someone else to think about as well.  Are you and baby running on junk or on the best fuel you can manage?  Make the choice meal by meal to nourish you and your baby.  I think about this as I’m breastfeeding too…nourish me and in turn, nourish baby.

5.  Make goals.  I started making goals when I was pregnant for what I wanted to do once I had baby, but you can easily make goals for yourself during pregnancy.  Things like a slower weight gain or exercise goals are great to have and shoot for during pregnancy.  Remember, think strong!

I started making changes about 4 weeks prior to delivery.  My goal was to get a jump start on losing the baby weight by eating better at the end then I ever have before.  I’m focused now on getting stronger through weight training and cardio and continuing to eat nourishing foods.

I’m nowhere near perfect and sweets are still a major downfall for me, but I’m not giving up and I refuse to make pregnancy an excuse anymore!

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So, how’s my progress?  Baby Creed is 9 weeks old and I am 5 pounds under pre-pregnancy weight.

9wks postpartum

My next mini-goal (remember, I said I have to do small goals because if I look at ALL the weight I need to lose, it overwhelms me) is about 7 pounds away!  That goal will mark the weight I was when I got pregnant with my 6th child in 2008.

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How I Lost All My Pregnancy Weight

How I Lost all the Pregnancy Weight | RaisingArrows.netYes, that’s right…
all 40 pounds of pregnancy weight are GONE!

Baby Creed is 6 weeks old and as of yesterday, I was back at the weight I was when I got pregnant with him.  When I mentioned this on Facebook yesterday, I had several people ask me to share how I did it, so this post is to do just that.

First, I feel I need to add a disclaimer…

I was overweight to begin with.

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(This photo was taken right before I found out I was pregnant)

It’s a known fact that the closer you get to your ideal weight, the harder it is to get the weight off, so it stands to reason that my being 40 pounds or more overweight to begin with makes it that much easier for me to lose the baby weight.

I also wanted to point out one of my weight loss heroes from this photo taken in April of last year.  Her name is Kris and she blogs at Weird, Unsocialized Homeschoolers.  I watched her drop nearly 100 pounds and become more fit and active than I had ever seen her.  Her journey has been an inspiration to me!  Thanks, Kris!

OK, so back to WHAT I did to lose the pregnancy weight…

When I was still pregnant, I joined a group of moms of many I knew online who were making healthy changes.  I was still several weeks from my due date, but I knew this time I was going to do it and not just think about it.  My husband was already starting to lose weight using My Fitness Pal, so I was inspired by him and my friends to start eating better even before Creed was born.  (By the way, Ty is now down 30 pounds!  Wow!)


I got a copy of Trim, Healthy Mama (a few weeks before Creed’s birth) and started learning about separating out my fuel sources, so my blood sugar stayed at a healthy level (something that has always been a big struggle for me).  I do not always eat the way that is recommended in THM, but it has made me more aware of what I am eating and what I need to do to feel my best.

Also, prior to having baby, I decided on some Baby Step Goals.  I’m one of those people who would rather deal with the trees than the forest.  A huge number of pounds to lose wasn’t something that motivated me in the least, so I decided to guess at what weight I might be after having baby and then set small goals from there.  I wrote every single goal I had on a sheet of paper and then covered up all but the current goal and taped it to the back of my closet where I would see it every day.  It felt so good to move that sheet of paper down to uncover the next goal yesterday!

The way I decided on what my goals would be were based mostly on my children.  My first goal was to get to where I was when I got pregnant with Creed, which also happened to be the weight I was when I got pregnant with my last child as well.  My next goal is another 12 pounds down and where I got pregnant with baby #6.  After that, the goals work their way down to where I have been with other pregnancies…baby stepping my way out of all the “baby weight” I’ve ever gained.

I decided I would exercise as soon as I felt able to.  I felt really well after having Creed, so I began walking at 3 weeks postpartum.  I started by walking 1 lap around the back of our pasture with Ty.  I worked my way up to 2 laps, then I started T-Tapp’s 15 Minute Basic Workout Plus.

T-Tapp isn’t a strenuous workout and it is easy to fit into my day.  About a week ago, I started using the elliptical for 10 minutes.  A couple of days ago, I worked up to 20 minutes.  I also just purchased:

Lindsey Brin’s PostNatal Workout and her CORE Firing Sequence.  (I’ll let you know what I think after I’ve used them.)  I also just started back in with the Tupler exercises.  Exercise at this point, is really just about what I can fit in when.  I do hope at some point to be a little more planned out, but that just isn’t happening.  I do like my friend Jamie’s take on exercising though…

Exercise until it comes naturally | RaisingArrows.net

I am also trying to get more sleep at night and drink more water during the day.

I also have been working on some “head issues.”

I know I am a person who needs to surround myself with people who believe in me and are determined and energetic themselves, rather than people who want to tell me how they can never get the weight off and how I probably won’t either (followed up with, “and that’s okay.”)  I’ve had to be careful about who I listen to and what I tell myself.

I’ve also had to come to grips with my lack of self-control and ask the Lord to help me learn this.  If you remember from this post, I allowed myself to indulge in food because of my daughter’s death.  No more!

And lastly, I am acting like a fit mama.  This may sound silly, but I have noticed how much more energetic and motivated I am when I move, eat, and think like a fit woman.  I stand taller, I move quicker, I even enjoy the things I do more, when I act like I am fit.  Crazy, but true!

So, there you have it!  It’s not some magic bullet, but it did work for me!  How about you?  What have you done to get your pregnancy weight off?  I’m sure everyone would love to hear more ideas for losing the baby weight!

Determined to Be a Fit Mom of Many

Fit Mom of ManyMany years ago, I was visiting with a friend who casually mentioned the fact that she had no intention of trying to lose any excess weight until after she was done having children.  And even though at the time, I thought that was a rather bad idea, I found myself falling into the very same mentality the more children I had.

I made excuse after excuse as to why I could not possibly exercise or eat right, and most of my excuses revolved around my brood of children.  Not enough time, not enough money, no one to watch the children, no way to exercise with them in tow.  Besides, I might be pregnant.

During my pregnancy with Creed, I began to spend time with several moms of many who had become determined to stop going from pregnancy to pregnancy gaining more and more weight and feeling more and more run down each time.  For the first time in years, I feel motivated to stop barely getting by and start working toward being a temple to the Lord in a body that is as fit to run the race as it can possibly be…no excuses!

I’ve been thinking about this journey I am on and whether or not I wanted to share it here.  The more I thought about it, the more I became convinced it needed to be shared because there had to be other moms of many wondering how in the world they could find the time and energy to do anything but raise their growing brood.  So, I decided to start a page here on Raising Arrows labeled Fit Mom of Many to offer resources and encouragement to BE THE HEALTHIEST YOU CAN BE AS YOUR RAISE YOUR FAMILY.  (The page is a work in progress, as am I, but I plan to write posts about the things I am doing and the progress I am making and add to the resources on the page.)

As of today (4 weeks postpartum), I am 4 pounds from my pre-pregnancy weight. That’s 36 pounds down from the weight I went into labor at.  However, before you ooo and aww, I need to be honest and tell you that I was about 50 pounds overweight when I got pregnant, and about 30 pounds from a weight I am actually comfortable at.

I have Diastasis Recti, so without some sort of brace or shapewear, my belly looks like this:

3 weeks postpartum

3 weeks postpartum

A few more pounds down and wearing shapewear, I look like this:

4 weeks postpartum

(I do not recommend wearing any sort of compression garment/brace/splint prior to about 4 weeks postpartum.  Give yourself time to heal and listen to your body.  Get yourself a nice pair of elastic-waisted pants or skirt – like the one I’m wearing in the top photo – and don’t stress about getting into your “normal” clothes.)

This is the first time in several pregnancies I’ve been anywhere near my pre-pregnancy weight this soon.  There are two things I feel are really factoring into my weight loss…

1.  A few weeks before giving birth, I started implementing the ideas from this book:

Trim Healthy Mama by Serene Allison & Pearl Barrett (daughters of Nancy Campbell of Above Rubies) is a 600+ page book that taught me an easy way to balance my blood sugars by keeping fats and carbs separated as much as possible.  I found that eating this way kept me from those awful sugar cravings I tend to have near the end of pregnancy.  Once Baby Creed was here, I kept eating this way and found the weight was coming off much quicker than it had in years.

I’ve started putting together my own Trim Healthy Mama Pinterest boards with recipes I either want to try or really like, but Serene and Pearl also have boards on Pinterest, and if you follow them, they will invite you to pin recipes you find on their boards.  They also have a Facebook page to lend support and offer recipe ideas, as well as a forum you can join.

2.  I started exercising sooner.

Now before you reprimand me, let me be quite clear…I am walking…that’s it.  But, it IS exercise and I did start at 3 weeks postpartum because I felt ready.  About 3-4 times a week, I walk the perimeter of our property.  It takes only 10 minutes to do, and even though I feel winded in the beginning, by the end of the walk, I feel energized!

I have no desire to be a super model.  Honestly, I don’t mind looking like a mom.  These posts aren’t going to be some mid-life crisis quest for the body I left behind in high school.  They are going to be the real me as I find real ways to be a fit and healthy mom of many!

What specific areas do you struggle with as a mom of many and trying to stay healthy?

Ask Amy – What Do I Do When My Family Isn’t Happy About a New Baby?

When Your Family Isn't Happy About a New BabyTotal strangers stop and stare.  Some even offer their rather rude $.02.  But when the harsh remarks are coming from your own family, they sting all the more.

A reader emailed recently asking what to do when family members are very vocal about their disapproval of your family size. She asked for Bible verses to lean on as well as advice about whether or not to distance yourself from family members who do not support you.

First of all, you must be certain of your own feelings toward having more children. Do you see your children as a blessing? (Psalm 127) Are you happy to be welcoming a new baby into the family? Do your children know you cherish them?  If you say no to any of these, it might be rather difficult to expect others in your extended family to be thrilled with your new addition.

Once you are certain of your own feelings, the best thing to do is live out your conviction.  What I mean by this is if you are fully convinced this child is a blessing from God, then live that way!  Enjoy your pregnancy!  Relish the time you spend growing this new life!  Be happy and don’t let anyone rain on your happiness!

It breaks my heart when I see women living in the shadow of what others think.  Children are never mistakes or accidents.  Be radiant!  Be happy!  Your refusal to fall into the trap of believing children are a hassle and a burden will outshine any negativity you may encounter.  And the best part of this is that your other children will see grace under pressure and will ultimately realize Mommy is thankful for all her babies.  What a blessed testimony!

As for Bible verses, Psalm 127 is my favorite because it speaks of children as blessings and rewards. Psalm 139 is another with its mention of babies being knit together in the womb with care by our Heavenly Father.

A little caution here: It is the Holy Spirit that pierces the hearts of others and not your aptitude for spouting Scripture in the hopes of convicting and condemning. Before you go quoiting Scripture to your skeptical family members, be certain of your motives. Be convinced of what Scripture says and wield it out of a conviction of its truth.

To answer the question of severing relationships with the negative influences of those family members who do not support you, I must admit I am not an advocate of breaking relationships with extended family members when your children are not in physical danger. You should guard them as much as possible, but you will not be able to protect your children from all disparaging remarks (the minute you think you have, the waitress at the restaurant will ask your kids if they ever get tired of having a new baby in the house…and hopefully, your children will do what mine did and look at her like she’s crazy!) It is much more beneficial to show your children how much you love and cherish them while teaching them to give a loving and honest answer to those who are less than charitable with their remarks.

My children know they are loved and I have no need to fall into the trap of arguing and stirring up strife with others.  Besides, in the end, who can resist this…

Creed 2 weeks

Introducing Baby Creed!

CreedBaby Creed
born January 17, 2013
10# 14oz
22″

Creed sleepingBy the time I published my post on packing a bag for a hospital birth and got headed to my OB appointment that day, I knew things were getting started.  I had been contracting fairly regularly for over 24 hours and when the contractions didn’t stop at the Dr’s office, my OB felt we had about a 48 hour window before I would be in full fledged labor.

Around 8pm on the 16th, things stalled out and I tried to take heart in knowing this happens quite frequently for me and usually once things get back to moving again, it gets pretty intense.

Intense would be an understatement.

Around 11:30 pm, I had a pretty decent contraction.  Around midnight, they started in fast and furious with only about 15 minutes in between.  Next thing I knew, they were only a couple of minutes apart and extremely painful.

At 2:00 am, I managed to wake my sleepy husband (adrenaline is a beautiful thing, let me tell you!) and we headed out the door.  Now, here’s the part I don’t care to ever relive.  We had a 40 minute drive to the hospital.  There was a part of me that wasn’t real sure I could make it.  Ty had things in the vehicle just in case we couldn’t make it, but I wasn’t in the mood for a roadside birth and purposely (yes, purposely) forced myself to NOT relax because I knew the second I relaxed, things would progress beyond what I could handle in a car.

Ty got behind a mail delivery truck (oh, the irony) that happened to be speeding and rode in his wake for a while with me howling and moaning the whole way.  The contractions just would not let up (something that has only happened to me twice before).  I finally told him I thought we needed to call the hospital so we didn’t end up standing at the front desk for 15 minutes like the last time.  Well, Ty couldn’t readily find the phone number to the hospital and drive at the same time, and I wasn’t going to be searching the internet anytime soon, so he called 911.

Not the smartest thing we’ve ever done.

Love the service 911 performs, but the questions they asked would have been hilarious had I not been in labor.  They asked if I was awake.  (Remember, I’m hollering!)  They asked if Ty was with me.  (See previous parenthesis.)  They asked Ty to pull over when he was only blocks from the hospital.  I heard them say that and hollered, “Don’t you dare pull over!”

Finally, we pull into the hospital parking garage and after a little confusion over how to actually get in the hospital, we met a nice lady coming out who grabbed me a wheelchair and pointed us in the right direction.  (Later, my dear husband would pay this service forward when he met a young couple in labor in the parking garage the next day.)

Thankfully, the 911 dispatcher did actually call the hospital, so when we got there, they were expecting us.  They also had orders to call my OB immediately because last time she did not make it to the birth.

At this point, I’m starting to try to get myself to a place where I can relax and while the contractions still continued to pile on top of each other, I wasn’t quite as bad off.  However, I could not labor as I usually do because the things I usually do just were not working.  Plus, we knew from previous labors, that my best chance at having another successful VBA2C involved me laboring semi-reclined.  I decided to take an epidural because the VBAC is more important to me than an unmedicated birth.

Labor was progressing quite well, but toward the end, we had to start pushing baby from the outside into the proper position because despite being complete, he was not coming down. (thank you, diastasis recti)

And then the game plan changed.  I began to feel breathless.  And then I felt dizzy.  And then the blood pressure cuff set off an alarm.  My blood pressure had dropped to 70/30 and I remember closing my eyes and thinking how I knew it was time to push, but there was no way I could do it.  Visions of c-sections began to dance through my brain and I wondered how in the world I was going to actually have this baby.  They gave me some IV fluids and some medication to bring my blood pressure up and my doctor said as soon as I felt like I could do it, it was time to push.  Ty says all of this was only a matter of 10 minutes or so, but in my head, it felt like an hour.

I finally felt normal again (Praise the Lord!) and began pushing.  After about 6 pushes, my husband announced, “Baby has hair!”  He knew that would encourage me because I was really, really wanting a dark haired baby this time (ah, the simple pleasures!).  A few more pushes and Baby Creed was here!  The whole room burst into, “It’s a BOY!”  Yay, my dark-haired little boy born on my Grandpa’s birthday!  I was over the moon!

Gma & CreedMy grandma holding Baby Creed – she was so happy he came on Grandpa’s birthday.

The hospital we delivered at is top-notch and very focused on the mother/father/baby relationship, and we could not have been more pleased with our experience there.  They do an hour of skin-to-skin time right after birth where little to no tests/measurements/etc are done.  After that, they weighed Creed (I hear the staff was taking bets on how big he was, and several came back later to find out!).  They also gave me a full 2 hours of recovery time where they basically left me alone with the lights low and no visitors.  It was so nice to just get to sleep and take in my new little boy in all his cuteness!  After that, they moved us to a HUGE room that even had a bed for Ty!  We spent the next two days drinking in the wonder of our newest addition.

Now, its time to share that wonder with all of you as we introduce Baby Creed to our family and to Raising Arrows!  What a joy it has been to share the journey with all of you!

Creed going home outfit

Creed’s Going Home Outfit – picked out by Daddy
(he likes to keep it simple so the baby takes center stage!)

Daddy & Creed

Daddy lovin’ on little Creed
(I’m convinced Ty becomes more and more enamored
with each new little one the more we have!)

Creed sleeping

Creed snoozing at home.

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I could stare at him for hours…
*happy sighs*